Kinky Holiday Ideas

Are you ready to spice up your sex life? Sometimes you don't have to travel far or spend a fortune on a vacation to enjoy a spicy adventure. Here comes our guide to cheeky holiday ideas!

Whether you want to explore your fantasy under the stars, in an erotic hotel, go on a kinky shopping spree, or explore fetish parties, there is something here for everyone.

Erotica on home turf

Our guide to erotic travel has plenty of exotic and raunchy resorts , but sometimes there's no need for lavish or exotic vacations, especially if finances are tight. Here are some ideas for kinky vacations that don't require flights or expensive reservations.

Plan an erotic staycation and enjoy each other's company at home. Transform the guest bedroom into an impromptu "prison" or plan an elaborate role-playing game. Keep it simple with candlelit dinners, inspiring movie nights, bubbling baths and slow exploration of each other's bodies and desires.

Stay at a Local Hotel
Sometimes it's hard to get the holiday feeling at home when the dishes are piling up and the neighbors are banging on the walls. Try booking a local hotel for a night or two and bring all your BDSM gear. Treat yourself to room service or a couple's massage for extra luxury.

Kinky Outdoors
Are you and your partner happy to be outside, why not explore BDSM under the stars? Take your loved one camping and don't forget to pack some toys and a bottle of wine. Enjoy each other's company on a secluded beach, by the fire or in the tent. Outdoor kink can really add excitement to your experience.

Dungeon Day Trip
Take a few days to explore the options for kink lovers in your own city or nearby cities. Visit a local dungeon or hire a dominatrix for the day. You don't have to travel across the country to get a new thrill.

Car holiday!
Pack the car and hit the road. Where you go and what you come up with is only limited by imagination and distance. Visiting new places together and seeking sexual adventure can be refreshing and just what you need to shake up a boring routine.

Kinky Shopping Trip
Some people love to shop on holiday, but why not make time for a kinky shopping spree in your own city? Visit the best local sex shops and treat yourself to some new bondage gear, body oils, floggers – whatever suits your kink or the type of BDSM you want to try. Finish with a romantic dinner out before returning home to test your new purchase.

Activities on Your Erotic Journey

Once you've chosen where you want to stay, it's time to consider other naughty activities to enjoy during your erotic getaway.

Dungeon Rental & Playroom
If you have already found accommodation at your destination, but want to visit a fully equipped dungeon for a few hours or a day, you can look for dungeon rentals by the hour.

Playrooms are another way to create kinky vacation memories. Some dungeons turn into clubs/for-fetish parties on select nights where kinky people can mingle and enjoy BDSM together. When researching dungeons, always check their online schedule to find upcoming events.

Dungeon Dominatrix
BDSM Events & Conventions Instead of planning your BDSM vacation around a specific resort or dungeon accommodation, you can consider a BDSM convention or annual kink event.

BDSM & Sex Museums
Do you need a break from the 24-hour sex party at your erotic hotel? Go out for lunch and then visit a sex museum!

The Fetish & BDSM Club
Almost every city has some kind of BDSM club or kinky bar. When they don't, you can usually find a nightclub that caters to the kinky crowd with a weekly or monthly fetish night.

If you're really struggling to find kink-friendly nightlife, head to the gay district. A city's gay village is often the safest and most fun place to let your freak flag fly.

Local BDSM Hookups
As mentioned earlier, finding events in dungeons is a great way to meet locals and get into a destination's kinky inner circle. You can also check local listings for fetish nights, sex clubs and BDSM parties.

You can even try using BDSM dating sites to arrange kinky hookups in advance. You can sign up for a site like BDSMdate.com as a couple and flirt with people at your holiday destination. Even if nothing comes of it, it's a good warm-up.

Erotic Travel Safety

You have finally arranged your dream erotic holiday with your special someone. It's time to pack your bags, but.. can you really take that vibrator with you in your suitcase? What about all the fetish clothes and the new bed strap system?

Let's take a look at some important reminders when traveling and being kinky.

Be careful what you pack. Research which items are acceptable to avoid delays and questions at airports.
When you go to the airport, dress to blend in. While you may prefer to be your kinky self 24/7, it's best not to take chances when dealing with airport staff and various checkpoints.
If you are in a 24/7 D/s relationship that limits a sub's behavior or ability to speak up, you may need to make adjustments, at least for the airport. Maybe a little business trip role play is in order?
Respect the local customs of your destination regarding dress and behavior, at least in public.
Keep your passport and other important documents in a money belt, hidden under your clothes when you're out and about. Or leave them in a locked safe at the hotel.
Are you traveling alone? Make sure someone you trust has a copy of your itinerary, including flights, accommodation and any kinky events you plan to attend.
If you plan to meet up with someone you have connections with online or use kink dating sites to meet locals while you're away, please tell someone you know.
If possible, get a local guide to point out neighborhoods or areas to avoid. Then ask them where the kinky people play!